total 4 reply to my ticket.
2 says yes i can connect to an OUTSIDE database.
while 2 other says remote to lunarpages database is not allowed.
i have no clue.....
but i'm not connect from outside to lunarpages's database.
i'm connecting to an OUTSIDE database where i have already setup database.
lunarpages connects to a database outside.
not outside website connect to lunarpages database.

i just need lunarpages to provide me webserver, thats it..